Key difference - love vs. infatuation
Many people don't understand the difference between love and being in love because both are intense and strong feelings. Many people assume that they are in love with someone just because he or she is great and they can't stop thinking about them. However, most of them are not in love, just infatuated with someone. Love is an intense feeling of deep affection . Infatuation is an intense but short-lived passion or admiration for someone or something. This is the main difference between love and being in love. However, love can also begin as being in love.
In this article, we'll look at
1. What is love? - definition and characteristics
2. What is infatuation - definition and characteristics
3. Main differences between love and infatuation
What is love
Love is an intense feeling of deep affection. When you love someone, that person is very important and very important to you. You support them and help solve their problems. You will stand by that person through thick and thin and do everything in your power to make that person happy.
Love is a gradual process. It takes time to get to know someone and fall in love with them. However, you might have immediate physical attraction to this person. A person in love doesn't just focus on the good qualities of their partner. He knows the partner's flaws and weaknesses and loves him despite the flaws. You won't expect perfection; They will accept that things can go wrong and will work to improve them.
When you really love a person, it will be difficult to imagine life without them. But you will always feel safe and comfortable with your partner.
What is infatuation?
An infatuation is an intense but short-lived passion or admiration for someone or something. Being in love is usually related to physical attraction. So falling in love can happen instantly. When you are infatuated with someone, you focus more on superficial things like looks, the way you talk, smile, etc. A relationship can start out as falling in love and can gradually lead to deeper and stronger love. Infatuation is a passing feeling. Of course, after a while you will lose your interest in this person.
If you are infatuated with someone, put that person on a pedestal, that is, you idealize that person. They will only see the good qualities, strengths, and perfections and will be blind to the negative qualities of that person. If you have an idealistic image of this person, you will also have unrealistic expectations
Being infatuated with someone can be draining. You will constantly worry about what the other person is doing, feeling, etc. You can also try to impress them as you feel insecure about the relationship. Being in love can also make you do irrational things, but once the being in love has run its course, you may regret your actions.
Difference between love and infatuation
Love is an intense feeling of deep affection.
Infatuation is an intense but short-lived passion or admiration for someone.
Love develops over time.
The infatuation is instantaneous.
Love lasts a long time.
Infatuation is temporary.
Love accepts the whole person, including imperfection.
Infatuation focuses on perfection and blinds people to the imperfections.
Love is more than a physical attraction.
Being in love is mostly a physical attraction.
Love doesn't make you irrational.
Being in love can lead a person to act irrationally.
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